July 15, 1984
Bethlehem Baptist Church
John Piper, Pastor
RUTH: STRATEGIC RIGHTEOUSNESS
(Chapter 3)
Then Naomi her mother-in-law said to her, "My daughter, should I not seek a
home for you, that it may be well with you? 2 Now is not Boaz our kinsman, with
whose maidens you were? See, he is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing
floor. 3 Wash therefore and anoint yourself, and put on your best clothes and go
down to the threshing floor; but do not make yourself known to the man until he
has finished eating and drinking. 4 But when he lies down, observe the place
where he lies; then, go and uncover his feet and lie down; and he will tell you
what to do." 5 And she replied, "All that you say I will do."
6 So she went down to the threshing floor and did just as her mother-in-law had
told her. 7 And when Boaz had eaten and drunk, and his heart was merry, he
went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain. Then she came softly, and
uncovered his feet, and lay down. 8 At midnight the man was startled, and
turned over, and behold, a woman lay at his feet! 9 He said, "Who are you?"
And she answered, "I am Ruth, your maidservant; spread your skirt over your
maidservant, for you are next of kin." 10 And he said, "May you be blessed by
the LORD, my daughter; you have made this last kindness greater than the
first, in that you have not gone after young men, whether poor or rich.
11 And now, my daughter, do not fear, I will do for you all that you ask, for all
my fellow townsmen know that you are a woman of worth. 12 And now it is true
that I am a near kinsman, yet there is a kinsman nearer than I. 13 Remain this
night, and in the morning, if he will do the part of the next of kin for you, well; let
him do it; but if he is not willing to do the part of the next of kin for you, then, as
the LORD lives, I will do the part of the next of kin for you. Lie down until the
morning."
14 So she lay at his feet until the morning, but arose before one could
recognize another; and he said, "Let it not be known that the woman came to
the threshing floor." 15 And he said, "Bring the mantle you are wearing and hold
it out." So she held it, and he measured out six measures of barley, and laid it
upon her; then she went into the city. 16 And when she came to her mother-in-
law, she said, "How did you fare, my daughter?" Then she told her all that the
man had done for her, 17 saying, "These six measures of barley he gave to me,
for he said, 'You must not go back empty-handed to your mother-in-law.'" 18
She replied, "Wait, my daughter, until you learn how the matter turns out, for the
man will not rest, but will settle the matter today."
Chapter one hit us with the bitter providence of God in the life of Naomi as she left
her land, and lost her husband, her sons, and one of her daughters-in-law. But there
was sweet providence as well. The famine broke in Judah and Naomi could go
home. Ruth committed herself to care for Naomi. And all the while a kinsman
named Boaz was preserved as a husband for Ruth to raise up an heir for the family
name and property. But the chapter ends with Naomi overwhelmed with her losses:
"The Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me."
In chapter two the mercy of God breaks through bright enough for even Naomi to see
it. We meet Boaz, a man of wealth, a man of God, and a relative of Naomi's
husband. We see Ruth taking refuge under the wings of God in a foreign land and
being led mercifully by God to the field of Boaz to glean. And we see Naomi recover
from her long night of despondency as she exults in God (2:20): "The Lord's
kindness has not forsaken the living or the dead!" Chapter two overflows with hope.
Boaz is a God-saturated man in his business and personal relations (vv. 4, 10-13).
Ruth is a God-dependent woman under the wings of God. Naomi is now a God-
exalting woman under the sovereignty of God. All the darkness of chapter one is
gone. God has turned her mourning into dancing. "The Almighty has dealt bitterly
with me" (1:20) has given way to "His kindness has not forsaken the living or the
dead" (2:20). The lesson of chapters one and two is surely at least this:
You fearful saints fresh courage take:
The clouds you so much dread
Are big with mercy and will break
In blessings on your head.
Seek refuge under the wings of God even when they seem to be all shadows, and at
just the right time God will let you look out from his Eagle's nest onto some
spectacular ravine.
Now for chapter three.
The phrase I want you to keep in your mind as we ponder chapter three is "strategic
righteousness."
The question which chapter three answers is, What does a God-saturated man, a
God-dependent young woman and a God-exalting older woman do when they are
filled with hope in the sovereign goodness of God? And the answer is that they
manifest a "strategic righteousness." By righteousness I mean a zeal for doing what
is good and right -- a zeal for doing what is appropriate when God is taken into
account as sovereign and merciful. By strategic I mean that there is intention,
purposefulness, planning. There is a passive righteousness which simply avoids evil
when it presents itself. But strategic righteousness takes the initiative and dreams
of how to make things right.
One of the lessons I learn from Ruth chapter three is that hope helps us
dream.
Hope helps us think up ways to do good. Hope helps us pursue our ventures with
virtue and integrity. It's hopelessness that makes people think they have to lie and
steal and seize illicit pleasures for the moment. But hope, based on the confidence
that a sovereign God is for us, gives us a thrilling impulse which I call strategic
righteousness. We see it in Naomi in 3:1-5, in Ruth in 3:6-9, and in Boaz in 3:10-15.
And the chapter closes again with Naomi full of confidence in the power and
goodness of God.
Two things stand out in Naomi's strategy in verses 1-5.
One is that she has a strategy;
and the other is what that strategy is.
The sheer fact that Naomi has a strategy teaches us something. People who feel
like victims don't make plans. As long as Naomi was oppressed; as long as she
could only say, "The Almighty has dealt very bitterly with me," she conceived no
strategy for the future. One of the terrible effects of depression is the inability to
move purposefully and hopefully into the future. Strategies of righteousness are the
overflow of hope. When Naomi awakens in 2:20 to the kindness of God, her hope
comes alive and the overflow is strategic righteousness. She is concerned about
finding Ruth a place of care and security, and she makes a plan. One of the reasons
we must help each other "hope in God" (Ps. 42:5) is that only hopeful churches plan
and strategize. Churches that feel no hope develop a maintenance mentality and
just go through the motions year in and year out. But when a church feels the
sovereign kindness of God hovering overhead and moving, hope starts to thrive and
righteousness ceases to be simply the avoidance of evil and becomes active and
strategic.
Naomi took the initiative to find a husband for Ruth. But the strategy she comes up
with is odd, to say the least. She says in verse 2 that Boaz is a kinsman. Therefore
he is the likely candidate for being Ruth's husband. That way the family name and
family inheritance will stay in the family, according to Hebrew custom. So Naomi's
aim is clear: to win for Ruth a godly husband and a secure future, and preserve the
family line. So she tells Ruth to make herself as clean and attractive as possible, go
to the threshing floor of Boaz, and after he has lain down for the evening, sneak in,
lift up his cloak and lie down at his feet. Everybody, including Ruth, must respond
by thinking, "And just where do you suppose that will lead?" To which Naomi gives
the extraordinary answer in verse 4, "He will tell you what to do."
One thing is clear here and one thing is not. It's clear that this is Naomi's way of
trying to get Boaz to marry Ruth. It is not clear why she should go about it like this.
Why not a conversation with Boaz instead of this highly suggestive and risky
midnight maneuver? Was Naomi indifferent to the possibility that Boaz might drive
Ruth away in moral indignation, or that he might give in to the temptation to have
sexual relations with her? Did Naomi want that to happen? Or was Naomi so sure of
Boaz and Ruth that she knew they would treat each other with perfect purity -- that
Boaz would be deeply moved by this outright offer of Ruth in marriage and would
avoid sexual relations until all was duly solemnized by the city elders? The author
doesn't come right out and tell us why Naomi chose this sexually tempting strategy
to win Boaz for Ruth. There will be a clue later, but for now the writer seems to want
us to feel suspense and ambiguity. Just where did Ruth lie down? The Hebrew is
just as ambiguous as the English. What would Boaz tell her to do? Whatever
Naomi's motive was, the situation is one that could lead us into a passionate and
illicit scene of sexual intercourse or into a stunning scene of purity, integrity and
self-control.
Next we see Ruth's strategic righteousness in verses 6-9.
In verse 5 she had said that she would follow all of Naomi's instructions. But Ruth
does more. Naomi had said that Boaz would tell Ruth what to do. But before that
happens, Ruth tells Boaz why she has come. She is lying at his feet under his
cloak. He awakes and says, "Who are you?" She answers with words unprompted
by Naomi, "I am Ruth, your maidservant; spread your skirt over your maidservant, for
you are next of kin." Ruth is not merely Naomi's pawn. She has gone willingly and
now she takes the initiative to make clear to Boaz why she is there. "You are next
of kin." Or literally, "You are the redeemer: the one who can redeem our inheritance
and our family name from being lost. I want you to fill that role for me. I want to be
your wife." She doesn't say it outright. In fact, she is less direct and more enticing.
She says, "Spread your skirt over me." Now whether Boaz takes this to be an offer
of outright sexual relations or something more subtle and profound will depend on
his estimate of Ruth's character. Fornication was wrong in the Old Testament (Lev.
19:29; Deut. 21:13-21) just as in the New Testament (Mt. 15:19).
There are two things, besides Ruth's character, which suggest something subtle
and profound is in fact going on here.
One is this: the only other place I could find in the Old Testament where the phrase
"spreading the skirt" occurs in relation to lovers is found in Ezekiel 16:8. God is
talking and he is describing Israel as a young maiden that he took for his wife.
"When I passed by you again and looked upon you, behold, you were at the age
for love; and I spread my skirt over you, and covered your nakedness; yea, I
plighted my troth to you and entered into a covenant with you, says the Lord, and
you became mine."
If this is any indication of what Ruth wanted from Boaz the request went far beyond
sexual relations. She was saying in effect, "I would like to be the one to whom you
pledge your faithfulness and with whom you make a marriage covenant."
But I think there is more to it than that; and this is the second indication of subtlety
and depth here.
When Ruth said, "spread your skirt over me," the word for skirt is the Hebrew word
for wing (also in Ezek. 16:8). This word is used only one other place in Ruth --
namely, in the key verse from last week, 2:12, where Boaz says to Ruth, "The Lord
recompense you for what you have done, and a full reward be given you by the Lord,
the God of Israel, under those wings you have come to take refuge." But what we
saw last week was that Boaz was God's agent to reward Ruth. He gave her free
access to his field, and protection from the young men and water from the well. Ruth
had said to Boaz, "Why have I found favor in your eyes?" And Boaz answered,
"Because you have come to take refuge under the wings of God."
So here's what I think is going on in chapter three.
Ruth has told Naomi about these words of Boaz. And the more they ponder them
the more they become convinced that they are laden with subtle loving intentions.
What Boaz really means is, "Because you take refuge under the wings of God you
are the kind of woman I want to cover with my wings." It is not easy for an older man
to express love to a younger woman. Boaz did it with deeds of kindness and subtle
words of admiration. He said he admired her for coming under God's wings. He
acted as though she were under his and he waited. And in the course of time Naomi
and Ruth hit upon a response just as subtle, just as profound. Ruth will come to him
in his sleep, in the grain field where he has taken her under his care, and she will
say yes. But she will say it with an action just as subtle and profound as the action
and words of Boaz. She puts herself under his wing, so to speak, and when he
wakes everything hangs on one sentence and whether Ruth has interpreted Boaz
correctly.
Imagine how fast her pulse was racing when Boaz awoke. Then the all important
words: "I am Ruth … spread your wing over your maidservant." There had to have
been an immense silence for a moment while Boaz let himself believe that this
magnificent woman had really understood -- had so profoundly and sensitively
understood. A middle-aged man in love with a young widow whom he discretely
calls "my daughter," uncertain whether her heart might be going after the younger
men, communicating the best he can that he wants to be God's wings for her. And a
young widow gradually reading between the lines and finally ready to risk an
interpretation by coming in the middle of the night to take refuge under the wing of
his garment. That's powerful stuff!! Anybody who thinks that a loose woman and a
finagling mother-in-law are at work her are on another planet. All is subtle. All is
righteous. All is strategic.
Now comes the strategic righteousness of Boaz in verses 10-15. To hear what he
says in the right way you have to remember it is midnight, they are under the stars
and he is looking down into the face of the woman he loves covered with his own
cloak.
May you be blessed by the Lord, my daughter; you have made this last kindness
greater than the first, in that you have not gone after young men, whether poor or
rich. And now, my daughter, do not fear, for I will do for you all that you ask; for all
my fellow townsmen know that you are a woman of worth.
And then comes a word of magnificent righteousness and self-control. He says,
"According to custom, Ruth, there is another who has prior claim to you and I
won't be able to proceed until all things are duly settled with him."
The stars are beautiful overhead, it is midnight, he loves her, she loves him, they are
alone, she is under his cloak … and he stops it for the sake of righteousness, and
does not touch her. What a man! What a woman!
Listen, the mood of American life today is, if it feels good, do it, and to hell with your
guilt-producing, puritanical principles of chastity and faithfulness. But I say to you, if
the stars are shining in their beauty and your blood is thudding like a hammer and
you are safe in the privacy of your place, stop … for the sake of righteousness. Let
the morning dawn on your purity. Don't be like the world. Be like Boaz. Be like Ruth.
Profoundly in love. Subtle and perceptive in communication. Powerful in self-control.
Committed to righteousness.
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